Difficult Staff – Is your high achiever one of them?

The high achiever Unless you’ve had the experience of managing a high achiever, you may be surprised to see them classified as “difficult”.  There is usually no doubt that high achievers produce results.  Intelligent, possessing high standards, they often exceed expectations in their performance.  So why are they sometimes  difficult to manage? It’s because of high expectations, both of themselves …

Saying “no” gracefully

I remember my kids going through the toddler stage and how frustrating the word “no” was as they practised it, and practised diligently they did – over and over again! As annoying it is, most of us accept that it is a critical stage in a child’s development and it’s part of the process of learning independence and setting boundaries. …

What’s in a name?

If you are about to embark on a new business, getting a business name is probably at the top of the to-do list since it’s the first of many other steps – logo, business stationery, website domain name etc. Unless you have a generous marketing budget at your disposal, it would be wise to choose a name that is easy …

de-cluttering

What does your clutter say about you?

Most people relate clutter to mess, to being disorganised or disorderly. My definition however, is somewhat broader.  If you are hanging on to something and it really isn’t adding any value to your life, it’s clutter.  If  it serves no purpose, it’s clutter.  And, just because an item has intrinsic value doesn’t excuse it from being clutter.  It’s just clutter in your life. …

tipping point

“Tipping points” and “dips” – the value of persistence

I struggle with the “tiger mum” concept because I don’t want to be one but sometimes some of my parenting beliefs have a tiger mum-ish feel to them.  I discovered this recently in a conversation with another mum.  I was venting my frustrations about my difficulties getting my children to practise the piano, particularly my son who is 4.  Her response …